Lately, I haven’t felt much like blogging. (I hope somebody noticed). It’s so difficult to think of something cute or amusing to write about when you feel like you life is in the crapper. Money is tight, kids are driving me crazy (some more than others) and work is hectic. The only thing funny in my life right now is the fact that I’m not in a straight-jacket.
Last night, however, I had a revelation. I went to a blogger gathering in Austin to visit a notable blogger, Bossy, who is touring the U.S. I wasn’t terribly familiar with her blog – who has time to read blogs – but went with a friend who actually follows Bossy. I was a little reluctant at first, but I am SOOO glad I went.
After a particularly hard day, I didn’t care so much about the gathering as I cared about the presence of alcohol and my dear friend. That was what I really needed. But it turns out I met some of the most inspiring women in Austin. All of them were in various stages of blogging. We talked about that for a little bit and I learned a lot.
However, the best part of the night was just all of the BS’ing and laughing with these ladies I had never met before. It was remarkable how comfortable I was with these total strangers. It was the most fun I have had in a long time.
It makes me realize how therapeutic socializing can be. And it made me want to get back in the saddle on this blog. I also came to the realization that it’s not so much about people reading what I put out there, it’s more about just putting it out there.
So, to all of you ladies that I met last night (especially Jami)… thank you. It feels good to actually be back with the living. I hope you missed me.
I missed you! So glad you came along!
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ReplyDeleteand i liked it. my mom is so inspiring.
Yay!! I'm glad you came out. It was definitely a learning experience for me too (thanks!), and I'm glad I got to chat with you.
ReplyDeleteWelcome Back! I think you're right, you have to do it for you. If someone else enjoys it and gets something from it, so much the better, but it has to meet your needs. When ORMom was going through her cancer treatments last year, blogging was a way to get out the things that I needed to get out. Your friend seems to have a natural talent for blogging and she's good at it. Now, I'm all - meh. Life isn't all that exciting now that possum season is over and the house is painted. So - do what you want to do when you want to do it. I'll lurk out here in cyberspace and enjoy the musings of all of you folks that want to share!
ReplyDeleteGirlfriends and liquor make everything better.
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